Let them know

The world is a cold place. Common courtesy is dead. Selfishness reigns. Concern for others is wheezing its last breath. People no longer respond "you're welcome" to a sincere thanks, but rather belt out, "no problem!", as if a request for assistance is a problem, unless it is officially pronounced not so. That has become part of the culture and many people are surprised that I find it rude. That's one of many barometers of how far our society has degenerated.

Social entropy. Society continues to trend toward its lowest energy state. Measure that energy as compassion, courtesy, selflessness...or many other synonyms. Drag out Roget.

Because such is the case, it is beyond refreshing to become acquainted with someone who defies the trend and dares to give abundantly of himself. It's very close to amazing. I had thought that nowadays one needed to be intimately befriended to someone for years before that person would open up to true generosity and compassion. Color me bemused, but well pleased.

It is equally important to let such a person know that he stands out, and that it's appreciated. Oh yes, in this world, it's much appreciated. In our entropic society, how many people will return to someone to let him or her know that individual had an affect, made a difference, contributed something of substance that helped one make it through another day? As rare as courtesy, which that is, indeed.

But also let us not forget the people already in our life who have shown us love, friendship and care. Don't take that for granted. It is such a rare commodity these days. A sincere, simple "thank you" can mean so much...so long as it is sincere. I don't intend to forget those whose friendship I have and their adoption tried. It was simply such a surprise to meet someone who was open and caring from the beginning.

So, let them know. It takes a moment to say thank you. It takes a moment longer to say why. And this costs nothing. What easier gift can one give than something which is a builder and which takes so little effort? Perhaps you wish to put more effort into it. A little anonymous note is a wry touch. If one can't bring thank you to the lips, or is doubting of how it will be accepted, or thinks it may be looked upon as seeking favor, then a slip of paper expressing appreciation is the perfect solution. Use your imagination...be creative. Even if it's a simple doodle around the edges. If you wish to take more effort, then that effort will be noticed and appreciated.

Let everyone know how much you appreciate them. Start a revolution. Be kind. Be friendly. Be caring. It takes energy to reverse entropy. But that energy will not be expended in vain.